Guys! Want to know if she’s as keen as you are? In this article, Beauty and Tips takes a look at how to tell if a girl likes you and is interested in you.
They see that men are from mars and that women are from venus. That’s kinda not cool when it comes to understanding each other! Guys say women are too ambiguous and hard to read, and women say the same of men. And true enough, it can be unbelievably difficult to work out if a woman is keen on you or not. She keeps her cards close to her text, and literally won’t give anything away. You could ask her directly, but even that won’t help: “So, do you like me or not?”
“A girls gotta have some secrets,” – she replies.
But we get it. You’re dying to know if she’s interested. And, no, you don’t want to be the one who makes the first move (wouldn’t that be crazy?). Well, we’re here to help you out. Let’s take a look at how to tell if a girl likes you and is interested in you.
She’s Active On Your Facebook
A clear-as-day sign that she’s interested in you? She’s active on your Facebook page. She’s Liking your recent photos and statuses, as well as really old ones that you totally can’t remember and wished you’d hidden from your timeline. She comments, too. While this might seem like ordinary behaviour at first – after all, isn’t this what we all do on social media? – it isn’t if it’s come totally out of the blue. Especially if she’s liking lots of old stuff, it’s a MASSIVE sign that she’s into you.
She Teases You
We learned as kids to tease people we like. It’s fun and in its own strange way brings us closer together. Is she teasing you? It’s a hint on how to tell if a girl likes you.
She Messages First
You know those times when you hang out with a girl you really like and really, REALLY wish she’d initiate a new conversation afterwards by sending you a message first? It’s so annoying when she doesn’t. Hey! It must mean she doesn’t dig you. Not necessarily. But if she does message first, you know that she’s for sure into you. This is the big one. If she initiates fresh contact, it means only one thing. After all, there is literally so much other stuff she could be doing! If she wasn’t keen on you, there is no way she’d start a new conversation.
She Asks You Personal Questions
It’s only when a girl likes you that she’ll start asking personal questions. She’ll probe you in a bid to get to know you better. Maybe she’ll want to find out more about your past, discover what motivates you, what makes you angry and so on. If you’ve noticed that lately she’s moved away from mere banter towards deeper, personal stuff, it’s a huge sign on how to tell if a girl likes you and is interested in you. She wants to know the real you to see if you guys are compatible.
She Sends Follow-Up Messages
There are two types of follow-up messages: 1) The really annoying ones, such as “hello???” 2) The cute ones, where she sends a photo to get your attention.
If she sends either of the above, she’s definitely interested. But naturally, you’d rather she sent the second type. It’s cute and charming. It’s her way of showing that she misses you and wishes you would text her more. Why? Because she totally digs you! So the next time you go a while without replying and she sends a follow-up text, it’s a surefire sign that she’s keen.
She Compliments You
Women don’t dish out compliments to just anybody – take it from us! So if she’s been sending a lot of compliments your way, it’s another tip on how to tell if a girl likes you.
She Sends You Really Random Messages
Ever get those really random messages from girls?
“This show is so weird.”
“LOL did you just see that commercial?”
“This weather is really grossing me out.”
They’re totally random – but what does it mean? Um, unless you really are from planet Mars, it means that she’s interested in you! A woman can’t be any clearer than a totally random message at a totally random time. In fact, the only way she can be clearer is if she came out and actually said “I LOVE YOU.”
Think about it: You’re the person she’s decided to message with her random thought. Moreover, she clearly wanted something to say to you to kickstart a new conversation. And so she chose a TV commercial. Go easy on her. She’s just trying to let you know that she likes you.
She Wonders Where You’ve Gone
“You’re always disappearing,” she huffs.
“I feel like you don’t have time to text me anymore,” she laments.
“OMG where are you today?!” – she exclaims!
One of clear tips on how to tell if a girl likes you is whether she’s wondering where you’ve done. Why? Because she misses you! When a girl steps up from simply asking how’s your day going to wondering where the heck you are, it’s a MASSIVE sign that she’s interested in you.
She Texts All The Time
If a girl isn’t really into you? She’s hardly going to waste her time texting all day. She might text once or twice, but that’s the most you’ll get. If she’s really into you? She’ll literally be texting you all the time, from the morning to bed time. If this sounds like her, take it from us – she’s into you.
She Tells You That She’s Single
If she explicitly mentions that she’s single, there is only one reasonable explanation – she wants you to know that she’s available. She’ll probably tell you this as soon as she realises she likes you. Why? Because she wants you to know that she’s on the market and open to start dating again. She wants to make it very clear that you don’t think she’s taken. How might she do it? She might say things like: “It sucks being alone at night.” “I’m gonna be single forever lol.” “No dude, I’m not dating anyone.”
Do you have other tips on how to tell if a girl likes you?
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